Connecting ESP8266 ESP-12E to BLYNK app

Hello All
i have been reading and searching the web and finding NO complete info, everything is split between different programing software, mainly Esplora and Aduino but still cant find whats needed to connect to my ESP8266 ESP-12E through BLYNK services.
My project is to control a relay with the ESP8266 ESP-12E via Blynk app, i have figured out how to connect the ESP8266 ESP-12E to wifi(not to Blynk) with Esplora and can turn the relay on 1 time with Arduino, this is due to trying different suggestions that i found on the web

any help would be appreciated
Thank You

So you have reviewed all of these?